EP. 05 / Morocco

I Came to America With $500. Here's What Nobody Tells You About Success

Souad Dreyfus shares how leaving Morocco for America with $500 led to a new life, a career in fertility services, and a changing definition of success.

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Souad Dreyfus describes leaving Morocco for the United States in 1998 after receiving a visa through a lottery program. She arrived with $500, little English, and a desire for opportunity and financial independence. After reaching the U.S., she worked as a nanny while attending school and learned to navigate a culture very different from the family-centered environment she knew in Morocco. Dreyfus later worked at a hospital, where an encounter with a fertility specialist led to a job and eventually to her founding Open Arms in 2003. In the interview, she discusses early business mistakes, hiring and delegation, the effects of COVID-era travel restrictions on international fertility clients, and the emotional demands of supporting families through infertility and loss. She also reflects on being an immigrant woman in business, her relationship with her Moroccan family, and how her definition of success shifted from financial freedom toward impact and helping others.

  • Dreyfus says she came to the United States from Morocco in 1998 with $500 and little English.
  • She describes opportunity and financial independence as major reasons she wanted to build a life in America.
  • Her early years in the United States included working as a nanny while attending school.
  • An encounter with a fertility specialist while she was working at a hospital led her into the fertility field.
  • She says she started Open Arms in 2003 after approximately three years working for a fertility specialist.
  • She identifies trusting the wrong people and delaying difficult decisions as major business mistakes.
  • She describes COVID-era travel restrictions as a major challenge for a business serving international clients.
  • Her definition of success changed from financial security toward impact, community, and helping other people.

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  • Leaving Morocco for the United States in 1998 and arriving with limited English.
  • How an unexpected suggestion from a college professor led her to apply for a U.S. visa lottery program.
  • Her father's reaction when she told him she was leaving Morocco for America.
  • Working as a nanny and attending school during her early years in the United States.
  • Learning English and adjusting to differences between Moroccan and American social culture.
  • How working at a hospital introduced her to a fertility specialist and eventually the fertility field.
  • Starting Open Arms and learning through difficult early client experiences.
  • Why trusting the wrong people and postponing hard decisions became important business lessons.
  • How COVID-era travel restrictions affected international fertility journeys.
  • The emotional reality of supporting clients through miscarriage, failed embryo transfers, stillbirth, and other losses.
  • Balancing Moroccan family culture with raising children in the United States.
  • Why Dreyfus now defines success less through financial freedom and more through impact.

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Souad Dreyfus

Dreyfus describes arriving in the United States from Morocco in 1998 with $500, little English, and a desire for opportunity and financial independence. She recounts applying for a visa lottery program after encouragement from a college professor, telling her protective father she planned to leave, and beginning her American life by working as a nanny while attending school.

Souad Dreyfus

She discusses learning English and adapting to American culture, including differences in social conventions and family life. She says that being an immigrant woman and business owner also meant confronting situations in which she felt people did not take her seriously.

Souad Dreyfus

Dreyfus explains that while working at a hospital she met a fertility specialist who offered her a job. She says she worked for him for about three years before deciding to move beyond the clinical side of infertility and starting Open Arms in 2003.

Souad Dreyfus

She recalls her first client experience as difficult and describes early entrepreneurship as a process of making mistakes and learning from them. She identifies trusting the wrong people, delaying difficult decisions, and struggling to delegate as important business lessons.

Souad Dreyfus

Dreyfus says COVID-era travel restrictions created major challenges for international fertility clients, including intended parents who could not travel to the United States for births.

Souad Dreyfus

She discusses the emotional demands of fertility work, including conversations involving miscarriage, failed embryo transfers, stillbirth, and other forms of loss. She says experience taught her that caring deeply for clients also requires making space for herself and her family.

Souad Dreyfus

Reflecting on Morocco and her family, Dreyfus says she takes pride in becoming financially independent and supporting her family. She also describes maintaining elements of Moroccan family culture while raising her children in the United States.

Souad Dreyfus

Dreyfus says her understanding of success has changed over time. Initially, success was connected to financial freedom and security. Today, she says it is more closely tied to impact, community, helping other people, and building something larger than herself.

FAQ

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When did Souad Dreyfus come to the United States?

In the interview, Dreyfus says she came to the United States from Morocco in 1998.

How much money did Souad Dreyfus have when she arrived in America?

Dreyfus says in the interview that she arrived with $500 and a small bag.

Why did Souad Dreyfus leave Morocco for America?

She describes opportunity and independence, particularly financial independence, as central motivations. She says she wanted to build something she could call her own.

How did Souad Dreyfus get the opportunity to move to the United States?

Dreyfus says a college professor encouraged her to apply for a U.S. visa lottery program. She applied despite not initially planning to move to America and later received a visa.

What did Souad Dreyfus do when she first arrived in America?

According to Dreyfus, she initially stayed with a contact, found work as a nanny, and attended school.

How did Souad Dreyfus enter the fertility industry?

Dreyfus says she was working at a hospital while attending school when she met a fertility specialist who offered her a job. She says she worked for him for about three years before starting Open Arms in 2003.

What business mistakes does Souad Dreyfus discuss?

She identifies trusting the wrong staff, vendors, or professional partners as a major mistake. She also says waiting too long to make difficult decisions and struggling to delegate created problems.

How did COVID affect Souad Dreyfus's business?

Dreyfus says COVID was a major challenge because travel restrictions affected international clients, including people who were unable to travel to the United States for births.

What does Souad Dreyfus say about the American Dream?

She says she still believes in the American Dream because she believes opportunity exists, while emphasizing that success in America is not easy.

How has Souad Dreyfus's definition of success changed?

She says success initially meant financial freedom and security. Later, she began defining it through impact: helping people, contributing to her community, and building something larger than herself.

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